I heard your voice again today. It was everything I remembered it to be—from the genuine “how are you doing” to the fake-ass “I hate you, bitch”—it felt like home. It was the popping and crackling of bubbling hot oil, deep-frying sui gows a few feet away from us; but it was also the fizzing and foaming of crisp, freshly drawn beer just seconds away from our faces. It was the whoop-whoop-whoops that shouted louder than the thump-thump-thumps of the clubs we’d visit when I wanted the attention of men; yet it whispered softer than the there-there-theres when you’d pat my back after having seen the worst of men in clubs. It was the angry, hateful beer-fueled discussions against religion and homophobia and racism and sexism and ignorance… before it resigned into disappointed, hopeless tear-filled prayers for humanity.
It was the voice that would cut as deep as Beth Gibbons; and then filled the cracks like Billy Corgan’s.
Your voice; it has always been the perfect balance of opposites. And when I heard it today, out of the blue, I knew it was my lucky day. I knew, I just knew, that I had to keep the memory of your voice, folded up neatly, and tucked away in my back pocket. So that whenever I felt like my life was out of balance, I could just reach into my back pocket, unfold this memory, and everything will be fair again.
But… I’ve unfolded this memory so many times, that the creases have disappeared.
I wish I could hear your voice, once again.